Where does the time go!

[Ermintrude]

My wife had a much more stable and easy job, for NHS earning a penny or two. I don't want her to work till sprogs are 5. She's done in and wants to go part time for the mental challenge.

 

[Destroyer2813]

Same as atouch ,Mutley 2 kids here only wage coming in takes a bit of balancing still adjusting to having a mortage and associated things

 

[gasmanrob]

It happens when it happens mutley.

You are right about wanting to be able to support the family it's built in to the male gene as hunter gatherer. But there is never a right time or perfect time you just change what you do.

 

[Destroyer2813]

As rob said time is never right we lost our first then had to wait ages to get another chance before our first then had to wait a age again for our second then loo and behold they now both have the same birthday

 

[SimonG]

Oldest lad was 2 when i first met the wife. Hes 30 at the end of April. Tried for ages for our daughter, tests and everything. Soon as we stopped worrying and stressing about it then the wife fell pregnant. The youngest followed quickly.

If we had waited for the right time then we would only have the oldest lad.

 

[mutley racers]

You know what; it is so weird how something that is so natural can be so difficult. Most of our couple friends have been havong kids these past few yrs and most of them have had to tey for a couple of yrs. It is rare when someone has tried and conceived in the 1st few months

 

[Destroyer2813]

We where considering going for tests before we concieved our daughter then 2 months later pregnant, If you and the wife really wanna have kids dont leave it to late in my opinion

 

[SimonG]

Most of the time its the pressure you put yourselves under.

 

[mutley racers]

I am getting a little worried about my age, not the wifes. Not that my little tad poles will dry out or become lazy but, that I won't be able to play football with my kids. Or any sport for that matter. Which has always been a dream of mine

 

[Ermintrude]

Just bang away! It's going to happen just let it happen. Balls to all thus legs in the air sex on a Wednesday at 3.12pm.